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    Was with this girl since May. Everything was perfect. A fight here and there but no different than any relationship. Everything just came so natural to both of us. I can honestly say we were both in love. I know everything there is to know about this girl, and the same with her with me. There were no doubts in either of our minds that we were getting married. **** we even talked about having a baby. She always brought up how much she "needed" me and how we depended on each other..it was all true. This girl's gone through so much **** in her life, and I was the one to bring her happiness, that was the best feeling in the world for me. What we had was real. The realest thing I ever felt in my life.

    Then the other night we were talking, she seemed different. I talked to her about it yesterday and she said to her, it just doesn't feel the same anymore. Then that was it. Over. Eveything we built up, everything we had. All gone. I feel like my life just got ripped from my body. This girl was my life. Just so empty and dead inside. By far the worst feeling in the world. Like all my motivation for everything is just gone. The worst part is that every f*cking thing I do or see or hear reminds me of her. She's in everything i do. I probably sound like such a bitch right now lol but anyone else have this feeling before? Getting in too deep with a girl you think you actually found love with, just to get punched in the gut really, really hard?

    **** sucks.

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    don't be surprised if she was seeing someone else while you were with her. skanks and broads love doing that.

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    Originally Posted by GoKnIcKsDLEE42
    Was with this girl since May. Everything was perfect. A fight here and there but no different than any relationship. Everything just came so natural to both of us. I can honestly say we were both in love. I know everything there is to know about this girl, and the same with her with me. There were no doubts in either of our minds that we were getting married. **** we even talked about having a baby. She always brought up how much she "needed" me and how we depended on each other..it was all true. This girl's gone through so much **** in her life, and I was the one to bring her happiness, that was the best feeling in the world for me. What we had was real. The realest thing I ever felt in my life.

    Then the other night we were talking, she seemed different. I talked to her about it yesterday and she said to her, it just doesn't feel the same anymore. Then that was it. Over. Eveything we built up, everything we had. All gone. I feel like my life just got ripped from my body. This girl was my life. Just so empty and dead inside. By far the worst feeling in the world. Like all my motivation for everything is just gone. The worst part is that every f*cking thing I do or see or hear reminds me of her. She's in everything i do. I probably sound like such a bitch right now lol but anyone else have this feeling before? Getting in too deep with a girl you think you actually found love with, just to get punched in the gut really, really hard?

    **** sucks.
    Wow... Everything you just said absolutely totally 100% reminds me of what happened to me a few years ago... Its almost surreal and you brought back alot of things I felt when I went through my ****... My advice to you and its gonna be the same thing everyone else told you... Move on. you have too... Go out and meet someone else... The faster you get on with your life the better... I know how you feel, it sucks.

    Originally Posted by quiggle
    don't be surprised if she was seeing someone else while you were with her. skanks and broads love doing that.
    And you my friend are right on the money... I found out the girl I was with was banging 3 other guys.....

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    Originally Posted by Giants89FLY
    Wow... Everything you just said absolutely totally 100% reminds me of what happened to me a few years ago... Its almost surreal and you brought back alot of things I felt when I went through my ****... My advice to you and its gonna be the same thing everyone else told you... Move on. you have too... Go out and meet someone else... The faster you get on with your life the better... I know how you feel, it sucks.



    And you my friend are right on the money... I found out the girl I was with was banging 3 other guys.....
    Word up G-Fly it's so hard to find a good girl these days. All girls i end up crushing on ends up being taken or crazy. I swear

    Yo Dlee, that does suck, but it could be way worse. My very first girlfriend left me for some guy she met online who lives in ****in texas. I mean really? What kind of **** is that? I wanted to kill myself. Took me over a year to get over it.

    Then again, you were in love. I don't know what love is.

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    Originally Posted by StreetDreams21
    Word up G-Fly it's so hard to find a good girl these days. All girls i end up crushing on ends up being taken or crazy. I swear

    Yo Dlee, that does suck, but it could be way worse. My very first girlfriend left me for some guy she met online who lives in ****in texas. I mean really? What kind of **** is that? I wanted to kill myself. Took me over a year to get over it.

    Then again, you were in love. I don't know what love is.
    Damn that's some f*cked up ****. And yeah, I never knew what love was, until this girl came along. She showed me what love is.
    Originally Posted by Giants89FLY
    Wow... Everything you just said absolutely totally 100% reminds me of what happened to me a few years ago... Its almost surreal and you brought back alot of things I felt when I went through my ****... My advice to you and its gonna be the same thing everyone else told you... Move on. you have too... Go out and meet someone else... The faster you get on with your life the better... I know how you feel, it sucks.
    This seems so impossible. She's in everything I do. She's in my thoughts she's even in my f*cking dreams. I can't escape her. When I was with this girl I honestly coulda went my whole life without being with anyone else in my life. It's gonna take a while to get rid of that feeling cause being with someone else, it's only gonna bring memories.

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    Originally Posted by GoKnIcKsDLEE42
    Damn that's some f*cked up ****. And yeah, I never knew what love was, until this girl came along. She showed me what love is.

    This seems so impossible. She's in everything I do. She's in my thoughts she's even in my f*cking dreams. I can't escape her. When I was with this girl I honestly coulda went my whole life without being with anyone else in my life. It's gonna take a while to get rid of that feeling cause being with someone else, it's only gonna bring memories.
    You gotta keep your head up man....

    And how did you guys exactly break up? Was it just on the phone, just all out of nowhere?

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    Originally Posted by StreetDreams21
    You gotta keep your head up man....

    And how did you guys exactly break up? Was it just on the phone, just all out of nowhere?
    Yeah we were talking and she just seemed different, like i could tell something was up. So I asked like why she was acting strange and.. she told me. She said she "wanted to be alone." Like no friends, no nothing. She told me she hated that her head and her heart don't think the same..head thinks she loves me, heart doesn't feel a love that way. Those were actually her exact words to me.

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    Originally Posted by GoKnIcKsDLEE42
    Yeah we were talking and she just seemed different, like i could tell something was up. So I asked like why she was acting strange and.. she told me. She said she "wanted to be alone." Like no friends, no nothing. She told me she hated that her head and her heart don't think the same..head thinks she loves me, heart doesn't feel a love that way. Those were actually her exact words to me.
    Damn, so this is out of the blue. I'm sure you didn't say anything wrong.

    I really dont know what to tell you except move on. Love can give you your greatest sense of happiness, or your greatest sense of pain.

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    Originally Posted by StreetDreams21
    Damn, so this is out of the blue. I'm sure you didn't say anything wrong.

    I really dont know what to tell you except move on. Love can give you your greatest sense of happiness, or your greatest sense of pain.
    I don't think I said or did anything wrong. I even asked if there was anything I coulda did or anything I didn't do that woulda made things work and she told me she really didn't think so. And again the trust level has just been so high that I gotta believe she's telling me the truth.

    In the past, when we jussst started talking, I remember her telling me something like how she gets sick of guys really quickly and can't help it. (weird thing to say, right?) But this whole time everything's just been amazing. I remember her telling me she's never been so happy with the relationship she's in. Oh, and about a week ago we got into a conversation about how we depended on each other, and she told me that she was "greedy" and that even if it was better for me, that she could never walk away from me cause she needed me that much.

    **** just changes so fast in a girl's head.

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    It sounds like she was getting 2nd thoughts.

    being addicted to a person is a blessing and a curse my friend.

    Im guessing you both were mad clingy to each other?

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    Alright here's the part you're gonna laugh at.. we're 16 lol. But still, I have never felt anything more real in my life. We didn't get to see each other anywhere near enough, and that killed me everyday. But we were always talking 24/7 whether it be in person over the phone or texting. From the second we woke up everyday to the second we fell asleep every night. And when we weren't talking..**** drove me crazy. Her too..hence all the "depending" and "needing you" talk.

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    Originally Posted by GoKnIcKsDLEE42
    Alright here's the part you're gonna laugh at.. we're 16 lol. But still, I have never felt anything more real in my life. We didn't get to see each other anywhere near enough, and that killed me everyday. But we were always talking 24/7 whether it be in person over the phone or texting. From the second we woke up everyday to the second we fell asleep every night. And when we weren't talking..**** drove me crazy. Her too..hence all the "depending" and "needing you" talk.

    All I needed to do was look at the first sentence..

    Chill the **** out man. College holds better opportunities than high school.

    I seriously thought you were in your mid 20s or something, thats a different story. But 16? Man, you got your best years coming up in a while.

    High school sucks, when it comes to girls here, theyre all either taken, a slut, crazy, or all of the above

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    Originally Posted by StreetDreams21
    All I needed to do was look at the first sentence..

    Chill the **** out man. College holds better opportunities than high school.

    I seriously thought you were in your mid 20s or something, thats a different story. But 16? Man, you got your best years coming up in a while.

    High school sucks, when it comes to girls here, theyre all either taken, a slut, crazy, or all of the above
    I saw that coming lol.

    Yeah I hear you. But I still honestly believe that what I had with her, some people never find that in their lives. It really was special.

    But like you said I have a loooottttt ahead of me so who knows.

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    Originally Posted by GoKnIcKsDLEE42
    I saw that coming lol.

    Yeah I hear you. But I still honestly believe that what I had with her, some people never find that in their lives. It really was special.

    But like you said I have a loooottttt ahead of me so who knows.
    Word man, I understand how you feel, but it is better to have loved and lost it then not to have loved at all.

    Anyway, high school isn't where id want to find my special someone, I'd just regret it. I'd like a girl now, but I gotta be patient and wait for the perfect moment.

    Just don't worry about it too much is all i can say to you man. Watch, you'll meet someone even more amazing 2-3 years down the line.

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    Know how you feel.

    One piece of advice,

    Time heals all wounds.

    Seriously.

    It seems like it'll never go away, but it does. You just need to give it time.

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