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    Default I feel like giving up on the female race entirely.

    Ill just put this in cliffnotes....

    -Knew this girl since 5th grade
    -started liking her in Septemberr-ish when i realized she liked me too
    -found out she wasn't a virgin (I'm a sophomore in high school that doesnt really party so thats kinda a big thing)
    -she tells me how she got seperated from her ex, who she had sex with several times.
    -She's a really depressed person, so obviously i'm always trying to cheer her up. She's been through alot so i looked past the fact she was not a virgin.
    -Started dating in late November
    -I felt reall nice with this girl, we shared food, had romantic dinners, all that corny **** you can think of man..
    -She called me today to break up with me cause she said she still loves her ex.

    Oh, it gets better.

    She then texts me after i hung up to tell me something shes too scared to tell me on the phone: right after we started dating that she cheated on me. With the ex.

    So, i call her. This is how it goes.
    "I think you have something to tell me"
    "I have to go"
    "No you don't, you better tell me now."
    -almost breaks down into tears- "I cheated on you." -hangs up-

    And then we texted and i interrogate her and she proceeds to tell me that even though they cant be together, they're going to continue to have sex.

    Like forreal man? I'm 15 ****ing years old and I had a girl done decieved me.

    The last relationship i was in prior to this the girl left me for a dude she claimed she loves.

    Can I just give up all hope on the female race?

    None of the girls at my school are halfway decent. (This girl doesnt go to my school).

    Fml.
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    All these emotions of sadness and anger just hit me man....**** this.

    I hate being so damn emotional sometimes.

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    Cheer up Streetdreams... Yo at that age it's all fun and games...think about it. You're not going to get married to any chick at that age, so you shouldn't stress it. Enjoy the time that you're with the girl (and I mean REALLY enjoy it, if you catch my drift lol), then move on.


    Young bitches play too many games cause they're undecided. Remember that they focus on relationships 99% of the time, so they're always over thinking everything. Which leads to mistakes and errors from their part (cheating, getting played, etc.)


    My motto when I was young:


    "Treat her like a prostitute" it's funny but it works...


    check the slick rick song :


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    Girls will be girls, but just remember that every girl is different.

    I've had a girl cheat on me, but I was with her for almost 3 years, and she was dating someone else behind my back. Apparently she's also a professional ninja because it didn't at all show until she slipped up.

    Now I'm dating another girl and she and I are doing quite well together. There are ups and downs man! Don't give up, just live your life and have a good time, the pieces will fall into place eventually.

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    Originally Posted by SLY1984
    Cheer up Streetdreams... Yo at that age it's all fun and games...think about it. You're not going to get married to any chick at that age, so you shouldn't stress it. Enjoy the time that you're with the girl (and I mean REALLY enjoy it, if you catch my drift lol), then move on.


    Young bitches play too many games cause they're undecided. Remember that they focus on relationships 99% of the time, so they're always over thinking everything. Which leads to mistakes and errors from their part (cheating, getting played, etc.)


    My motto when I was young:


    "Treat her like a prostitute" it's funny but it works...


    check the slick rick song :

    word bro treat the girl like ****, you gotta put em in their place and show them you the superior they love it that way when you be too nice thats when they take advantage you gotta lay down the law and be an ******* 90% of the time

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    Originally Posted by DaTPRiNCE
    word bro treat the girl like ****, you gotta put em in their place and show them you the superior they love it that way when you be too nice thats when they take advantage you gotta lay down the law and be an ******* 90% of the time
    exactly, but depends the kind of ******* we are talking here. Dont be a wife beater but dont be a sucker plain and simple. But like I said always say something sweet here and there to throw them off there feet ;d

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    Dealing with girls is like dealing with a kite.

    But too many weak dudes put value into girls and blow them up, thus making them difficult than they really are.

    Just let them come to you, if they aint coming to you, theres something wrong with you.

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    Originally Posted by thekidd13
    exactly, but depends the kind of ******* we are talking here. Dont be a wife beater but dont be a sucker plain and simple. But like I said always say something sweet here and there to throw them off there feet ;d
    i go by the same **** loll keep em on they heals not knowing what you doing next loll exactly my way of thinking loll

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    Originally Posted by StreetDreams21
    Ill just put this in cliffnotes....

    -Knew this girl since 5th grade
    -started liking her in Septemberr-ish when i realized she liked me too
    -found out she wasn't a virgin (I'm a sophomore in high school that doesnt really party so thats kinda a big thing)
    -she tells me how she got seperated from her ex, who she had sex with several times.
    -She's a really depressed person, so obviously i'm always trying to cheer her up. She's been through alot so i looked past the fact she was not a virgin.
    -Started dating in late November
    -I felt reall nice with this girl, we shared food, had romantic dinners, all that corny **** you can think of man..
    -She called me today to break up with me cause she said she still loves her ex.

    Oh, it gets better.

    She then texts me after i hung up to tell me something shes too scared to tell me on the phone: right after we started dating that she cheated on me. With the ex.

    So, i call her. This is how it goes.
    "I think you have something to tell me"
    "I have to go"
    "No you don't, you better tell me now."
    -almost breaks down into tears- "I cheated on you." -hangs up-

    And then we texted and i interrogate her and she proceeds to tell me that even though they cant be together, they're going to continue to have sex.

    Like forreal man? I'm 15 ****ing years old and I had a girl done decieved me.

    The last relationship i was in prior to this the girl left me for a dude she claimed she loves.

    Can I just give up all hope on the female race?

    None of the girls at my school are halfway decent. (This girl doesnt go to my school).

    Fml.
    Your story reminds me of a girl i was close with back in highschool too. So i can kind of relate to this.

    I thought she was a virgin, I was the closest thing to a "real" boy friend she ever had. She would always date these punks that never gave two shyts about her but she was that type that fell in love with the bad boys no matter what.

    One day im hanging out with her and she tells some random kid that she had sex like a million times and i found out she lied to me for a while.

    Problem was i played the nice guy role, when i should have been the bad guy role, but i was trying to be different, give her a reason to see me because i was different......then teh one time i try to be a bad guy and go in for the kill..she thinks its too wierd because i was always the nice guy.

    Point of the story is dont pretend to be someone else because you are who you are and if the person doesn't like it, then you should not be with them in the first place.

    You learn from these experiences.

    At 15, you should not be falling in love with girls or trust girls 100%! That is a huge no no, I learned that the hard way.

    Highschool is full of immature girls that can't control their emotions and want to be popular and will do anything for it, including having sex with ex boyfriends just to hang on to that past.

    Believe bro, you are better off without this girl.

    She might call you one day and saying she loves you.

    I had that happen a couple of times were a girl was against going out with me because of another guy, they would then break up and come running to me.

    You can be that type of guy that would take them, but then you would always think in your mind if they would leave you again or if your just the rebound guy.

    So whenever something like your scenario occurs, the girl is out of my mind for good. She stays as a friend and will always be because for her own good, she has to learn more than you do, especially if she is the root of the problem.

    Hope i helped....just remember...one girl isn't the end of the world... believe me man i just finished up high school, learned alot and now im taking it slow when it comes to giving up all my feelings for some chick.

    Analyse a girl, really figure out if she is being real or just trying to look good, it's like night and day and if you find a good one, you'll know.

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    If I was in your situation, I wouldn't necessarily try to humiliate her or become her worst enemy but I would stop talking to her.

    Women are always going to do that to nice guys who allow that sort of behavior, especially when the woman is young, naive and emotionally insecure.

    There are two things that you could do to a girl like that:You either dump her before she dumps you or let her know that you're not the type of guy who likes to play games.

    Fifteen, is always the toughest age to date.I rarely meet a teenage couple who takes themselves seriously.I remember having my first girlfriend at that age and going through a similar thing.And the ironic thing was that after I had my feelings hurt, I continued putting myself in a position to get played.

    It took me about 5 years to realize that if you don't learn how to master women, they will find ways to walk all over you and be apathetic about it.

    No girl likes a guy with low self-esteem who easily falls head over heels for her.The sad thing about most girls is that they could feel a certain way about you one day and change their minds the next.Trusting a girl by her words or by how she behaves towards you is one of the biggest errors that a young man could commit.90 percent of the things she tells you she probably doesn't mean.

    Another mistake that you could make is getting back with her.From how you describe her, she doesn't sound like a good girl for you.She is busy having sex with other guys and causing you to perceive yourself as being worthless.Some girls you just have to stay away from because instead of benefiting from them they will make you feel worse about yourself.

    Just learn how to forget about this girl and you'll be alright.You are still young and discovering new things about yourself.If you wait a little longer, you'll eventually find some girl who will appreciate you.

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    Originally Posted by StreetDreams21
    Ill just put this in cliffnotes....

    -Knew this girl since 5th grade
    -started liking her in Septemberr-ish when i realized she liked me too
    -found out she wasn't a virgin (I'm a sophomore in high school that doesnt really party so thats kinda a big thing)
    -she tells me how she got seperated from her ex, who she had sex with several times.
    -She's a really depressed person, so obviously i'm always trying to cheer her up. She's been through alot so i looked past the fact she was not a virgin.
    -Started dating in late November
    -I felt reall nice with this girl, we shared food, had romantic dinners, all that corny **** you can think of man..
    -She called me today to break up with me cause she said she still loves her ex.

    Oh, it gets better.

    She then texts me after i hung up to tell me something shes too scared to tell me on the phone: right after we started dating that she cheated on me. With the ex.

    So, i call her. This is how it goes.
    "I think you have something to tell me"
    "I have to go"
    "No you don't, you better tell me now."
    -almost breaks down into tears- "I cheated on you." -hangs up-

    And then we texted and i interrogate her and she proceeds to tell me that even though they cant be together, they're going to continue to have sex.

    Like forreal man? I'm 15 ****ing years old and I had a girl done decieved me.

    The last relationship i was in prior to this the girl left me for a dude she claimed she loves.

    Can I just give up all hope on the female race?

    None of the girls at my school are halfway decent. (This girl doesnt go to my school).

    Fml.
    WOAH bro calm down its really not that serious just a girl bro. Look I'm 17 and trust me older you get the more you realize how hard it really is to find a virgin, like I have found but either there ugly or there parents are really strict and could never go out. A girl does not need to party alot to not be a virgin all she needs a couple of hours to be out and that's enough for her to go over a dudes house and you know get busy. I have dealt with virgins though its nice there not really experienced if you know what I mean but just because you took there virginity they get attached and just makes it harder when you have to let them go, but that's not the point, point is get a grip.

    From the sounds of it you really did like this girl but bro she CHEATED. BIG BIG no no in my books. She ****ed him while being with you I mean do you really think this girl thinks about you? Move on not the end of the world your not going to die alone I can guarantee you that much even if your school looks HOPELESS with no female life present you wont end up alone. Also from the looks of it looking like girls taking you for granted. Are you that sweetheart type of guy? You are that's always a nice trait to have but not really one to be if you get what I mean. Point is don't be so quick to write the girl a love poem or a song or something corny like that. Do it when necessary or when she deserves it other then that play it cool play it like you like her but you can live on without her. Trust me I have tested it girls LOVE that stuff I have no idea why. Dont be a dick, but don't let your guard down neither and let your emotions run the relationship. Let your instinct run it.

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    What the ****!?

    Jesus dude..... You'll be good man.

    I'm almost twice your age right. 30 this year (damn it) and by the time you get to my age you won't be swooning over chicks and falling in love.

    Just get out there and **** anything with 2 feet and a heartbeat and dodge aids like a ninja.

    When you're an old badger like myself, you'll only ever be dreaming of the chicks that you could have ****ed.... but never did....

    NO LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS UNTIL YOU'RE AT LEAST 28.. THAT'S AN ORDER!

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    Yea I think we are all saying the same thing here.

    Not like she had your kids. AH give it time youll get over her and find some other broad to drool over

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