Last edited by metrocard; Jul 14, 2009 at 05:08.
Any of you guys want to donate diapers?
congrats to you and your wife. let me know if you have a baby registry so I could send you some Butt Paste.
are you also going to apply for government assistance to get free baby care, food and drink? I see plenty of Asians and Russians doing that in my area.
Iono, what would you do? Can I apply for that online or have to go somewhere to do it?
Well establish your relationship with your child's mom off the jump. If there is no future between you two, let it be known from the get go! Trust me if she is holding on to hope, then it will make both of your lives hell!
Now, the best bet for you, her and your little one is to try to keep the family complete and be with her. Trust me there is no feeling like watching another man take a father type role in your kid's life.
But, if you two being together isnt practical, then it is what it is.
But, I think you got the right attitude about wanting to be there for your seed. Just remember that it takes more than just physically present. Make time for this kid and protect that time so nothing interferes with it. Get into that habit now, and it will become second nature.
There is plenty more advice to give, but I could type all day! But those should get you headed in the right direction with this.
Oh yeah, always be prepared for the spray when changing the diapers!
"I'd Rather Melo shoot with 3 men on him than Jefferies shotting wide open"
-Jeff Van Gundy
The reason we're keeping it is because we're have a beyond strong and bold relationship...that wasn't even a worry, everything has been mutual and its been great...its more than a future, on the max. We're helping each other a lot, but I'm stepping in and taking the leadership role...setting up appointments with the Doc, gonna get inquired on financial aid...just everything that needs to be done.
**** is crazy THO.
Like when you're 18-21...you expect to party like a nut, get laid everyday, etc...just live wreckless.
But I guess thats all the hype that college builds up...the important thing in the end is what makes you wake up everyday.
and I found that, and I can't let go of it.
Are there any other parents in the forum, or am I the only one now?
congrats metro, wish you and your girl the best dude
its crazy cause thats all im about now you know just have a good time, seeing this thread has in a way make me think about what i want in the near future you know. ima now concentrate on the short term cause that will ultimately get me to where i wanna be long term. you cause in a couple of years ima be finished with school and gonna be looking to settle down and start a family, this partying/having fun phase is only cute in college loll
again, good luck with the baby
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